How To Approach A Girl On The Street
When you know how to approach a girl on the street successfully you gain access to some amazing women that usually don’t go out to bars and clubs.
I ‘m talking about those elegant, exceptional and beautiful women you seldom find in clubs and bars. That’s not their scene.
Unfortunately for most men the idea of talking to girls on the street freaks them out.
It’s true, the chances of rejection are a little higher but the rewards will be all the more greater when you have her in your bed shortly after.
Most guys think there must be some magic formula to approaching women on the street but they haven’t the slightest clue of how easy it can really be.
Most often than not, most girls you meet on the street will be very open, polite and friendly.
Contrary to popular belief, every woman has the time to be swept of her feet and being approached by a complete stranger. It’s why they dress up and put make up on every day. They’re all waiting for that special moment.
The benefit is that when you learn how to approach a girl on the street you’ll attract beautiful women in abundance.
The only challenge with approaching women on the street is that they could be in a hurry or preoccupied with a number of thoughts. It’s actually funny how many women zone themselves out of the world with a pair of headphone.
Yes it true you may run into a bitch or two and you only have a very limited time to make an good impression on a girl.
How To Approach A Girl On The Street: Starting Conversations With Women
All you have to do to start a conversation with a woman on the street is to stop her and get her attention. I wouldn’t advise coming up from behind the woman as you may startle her, but face on or sideways is completely fine.
I always say “hi” or “excuse me”. I never say “sorry for interrupting” because you’re already apologising and taking a lower ground.
Immediately after I’m very direct and show that I’m interested in her because there are not really many good reasons for stopping someone in the street apart from asking for directions.
I also believe that you shouldn’t insult a woman’s intelligence. They know something is up.
So I say something like:
“I just noticed you and thought you looked really cute/interesting/intriguing and would have kicked myself for not meeting you.”
I don’t tend to use the word beautiful because it’s a very strong word to use for someone you just met. You want to let them know that you’re interested but not in love with her or anything.
Look the girl in the eye immediately and be confident in your delivery. This is very powerful.
Confidence is you best friend when you are learning how to pick up girls on the street.
After that you just introduce yourself and start asking her questions, like her name, where she is from and what she is doing right now.
You can add some humour in too and if you can make her laugh that is great.
You’ll typically have between 2-5 minutes to quickly gain rapport and familiarity with her enough for her to feel comfortable giving her number to you.
How To Approach A Girl On The Street: Getting A Girls Number
One thing you must understand is that women are hardly ever approached on the street and so you have already shown them that you’re a confident man by doing so.
Women are highly attracted to confidence so you stand a good chance of getting a girls number already.
I will usually say something like:
“I have to go, but it was nice meeting you. It would be good to talk to you again sometime, what’s your number?”
Notice I didn’t ask if I could have her number. There is a very fine distinction there. If I was asking her for her number I would have said “can I have your number?” That could lead to a “yes” or “no” response where as the way we said it the only logical response is to give her number.
When you approach a girl on the street always assume she will give you her number. Think of it as a natural thing.
How To Approach A Girl On The Street: Common Excuses
Usually a girl might say:
“Sorry, I have a boyfriend” or “Sorry, I’m in a hurry”.
You will get some bitches that just walk right by you but it’s not a common occurrence.
You can respond to the above with something like:
“Hey I just like meeting people and you looked interesting” or “That’s cool, this will only take a minute”.
Essentially just brush off what she just said and you may find if you keep your cool a conversation can develop.
The other excuses will come from you. You may see a woman on the street and think about approaching her but then this little voice inside says “she’s too hot for me” or something similar and you don’t approach.
The more attractive the woman is the better chance you stand because those are the women that are hardly ever approached.
If that happens to you then you do need to work on your beliefs and self esteem a little bit, and tweak your mindset.
Apart from that you should practice how to approach a girl on the street straight after reading this. Don’t take any rejection personally and good luck picking up girls.